Farrah Abraham wants everyone to know she’s in a better place in life than her archnemesis Jenelle Evans — but is adamant she’s not throwing shade… while throwing shade.

She tells she’s worked hard to become a great single parent but says the same can’t be said for her former “Teen Mom” costar … who urged for a “welfare check” to be conducted at her home despite having recent encounters with Child Protective Services herself.

After Farrah posted a bunch of videos and photos of her new BF on a trip to Turks and Caicos her social media was flooded with negative comments, including people calling for CPS to get involved. Jenelle clearly agreed by posting and then deleting a Facebook story Tuesday saying that someone should do a welfare check on Farrah’s daughter because she seemed unstable.

After hitting back at Jenelle’s concerns on her IG Stories, Farrah adds the CPS calls have devastated her … and she wants to keep it out of her family/dating dynamics — especially with a brand-spankin’ new man in the picture.

Basically, Farrah says life at home with her 14-year-old daughter Sophia is a dream … unlike Jenelle — whom she implies invites “abusive men into her life.”

Remember … reported a little over a week ago Jenelle’s 14-year-old son Jace was hospitalized after running away from home — his fourth attempt, including the time in September the same day Jenelle’s husband, David Eason, was accused of roughing him up.

Our sources say CPS officials are concerned about Jace … and if he runs away again, he could end up in a juvenile detention facility.