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Some adults keep their health issues a secret when dating (Image: Getty)
Only a third of adults would disclose a health issue to a new partner within the first month of dating, according to research. A poll of 2,000 Brits found one in 20 would only discuss a health issue early in a relationship if it became ‘necessary’.
According to a recent study, only one-third of adults would disclose a health condition to a new partner within the first month of dating. This survey, which polled 2,000 individuals in the UK, revealed that one in twenty would only bring up a health issue early in a relationship if it became absolutely necessary.
Interestingly, the findings showed that people are more inclined to discuss health concerns with friends first (78%) rather than family members (62%). The conditions most commonly kept secret from others, including friends, family, or colleagues, are incontinence (22%), depression (19%), and irritable bowel syndrome (IBS) (18%).
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Commissioned by AXA Health for their Cover That Cares campaign, the research also highlighted that a quarter of respondents would feel uncomfortable disclosing a cancer diagnosis to a new partner.
The survey further indicated that 88% of adults believe it’s crucial to be transparent about health issues with loved ones. This transparency is viewed as essential not only for enabling family support and planning but also because family members are seen as deserving to know such information.
Heather Smith, CEO of AXA Health, said: “Being able to talk about health conditions – whether it is to your family, your partner or your colleagues – is so important. Sharing worries and having someone listen to your concerns can help feel like a weight has been lifted and can make you feel less alone.”
A fear of being judged (51%) was the most common reason respondents said they wouldn’t want to disclose any health issues, followed by embarrassment (35%) and feeling rejected (29%). However, 15% who avoided telling their partner went on to regret not being honest.
Worryingly, 14% of those with health issues have even avoided pursuing a relationship as a result of their condition.

Others are too embarrassed to open up to family members (Image: Getty)
For those who did open up to a partner, 39% were relieved. Similarly, the OnePoll study found their other half was happy they had been honest (29%) and 27% reacted in a calm manner.
The research discovered that 43% of people felt supported and 35% reassured after sharing their health issues with a loved one. A quarter of partners even began researching the condition to understand it better and to help offer the right support and be empathetic.
Heather Smith added: “For some people it can be difficult to open up. People don’t want to be seen as a burden but by keeping quiet about their symptoms or conditions they can’t benefit from a listening ear and the comfort of being able to speak openly without judgement.
“At AXA Health, we are here to listen, support and care for our members at every stage of their healthcare journey.”
TOP 30 HEALTH ISSUES BRITS WOULD HIDE FROM OTHERS:
- Incontinence
- Depression
- Irritable Bowel Syndrome
- Erectile Dysfunction
- Chronic infections such as UTI’s (Urinary Tract Infections)
- Panic attacks
- HPV virus
- Post-traumatic stress disorder (PTSD)
- Hair loss
- Work related stress
- Neurodivergence (e.g. ADHD, OCD, Autism)
- Crohn’s Disease
- PMS or PMDD (Premenstrual Dysphoric Disorder)
- Cancer
- Eczema
- Endometriosis
- Heart condition
- Psoriasis
- Chronic Fatigue /ME
- Chronic pain condition
- Joint issues
- Migraines
- Acne or rosacea
- Asthma
- Coeliac Disease
- Fibromyalgia
- Rheumatoid Arthritis
- Hearing loss
- Type 1 Diabetes
- Vision impairment