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An American woman whose Irish husband drowned their three-year-old daughter and himself has won permission to have her body exhumed after agreeing to bury them together in a ‘fog of grief and shock’. 

Rebecca Saunders, then 26, was planning to divorce Martin McCarthy, 50, before he vanished with their little girl, Clarissa, in March 2013.  

Their bodies were later recovered from Audley Cove in West Cork, with McCarthy having led their daughter into the sea.

Father and daughter were buried together three days later in a single coffin in Schull, which Rebecca later admitted was an ‘awful decision’.

She launched a campaign to have her daughter’s body exhumed so it could be brought to Texas, where she lives, after feeling like she had ‘abandoned her little girl’ in Ireland. 

Writing on Twitter today, Rebecca revealed she has been granted the licence to exhume Clarissa’s remains: ‘After 9 years I will be able to correct my awful mistake! Can’t wait to be able to take Rissa home! This has really been a long time coming. It’s a day for celebration! 

Rebecca Saunders was planning to divorce Martin McCarthy, 50, pictured together, before he vanished with their little girl, Clarissa, in March 2013. Their bodies were later recovered from Audley Cove in West Cork, with McCarthy having led their daughter into the sea. Their bodies were buried together but Rebecca has won a licence to have the body exhumed

Rebecca Saunders was planning to divorce Martin McCarthy, 50, pictured together, before he vanished with their little girl, Clarissa, in March 2013. Their bodies were later recovered from Audley Cove in West Cork, with McCarthy having led their daughter into the sea. Their bodies were buried together but Rebecca has won a licence to have the body exhumed

Rebecca Saunders was planning to divorce Martin McCarthy, 50, pictured together, before he vanished with their little girl, Clarissa, in March 2013. Their bodies were later recovered from Audley Cove in West Cork, with McCarthy having led their daughter into the sea. Their bodies were buried together but Rebecca has won a licence to have the body exhumed

Rebecca (pictured with Clarissa) previously revealed the chilling contents of the note McCarthy left her before committing the horrific murder-suicide

Rebecca (pictured with Clarissa) previously revealed the chilling contents of the note McCarthy left her before committing the horrific murder-suicide

Rebecca (pictured with Clarissa) previously revealed the chilling contents of the note McCarthy left her before committing the horrific murder-suicide

Rebecca launched a campaign to have her daughter's body exhumed so it could be brought to Texas, where she lives, after feeling like she had 'abandoned her little girl' in Ireland

Rebecca launched a campaign to have her daughter's body exhumed so it could be brought to Texas, where she lives, after feeling like she had 'abandoned her little girl' in Ireland

Clarissa

Clarissa

Rebecca launched a campaign to have her daughter’s body exhumed so it could be brought to Texas, where she lives, after feeling like she had ‘abandoned her little girl’ in Ireland 

‘A heartfelt thank you to everyone who has helped to shape this into reality. You’ve no idea what this means to me and my family.’

Speaking last year on RTÉ One’s Claire Byrne Live programme, Rebecca revealed the chilling contents of the note McCarthy left her before committing the horrific murder-suicide.

It read: ‘If you can take Clarissa to America I can take Clarissa to heaven. You can now get on with the rest of your life as mine and Clarissa’s is about to end. 

‘By the time you will get to read this letter I and Clarissa will be in heaven. You did not realise how much I loved you, I could not see my daughter being raised up by a stepfather.’

Rebecca said she ‘fell into shock’ after reading the note, adding: ‘It explained that because of my actions, because of wanting a divorce this was all due to my decision of my wanting to, as he saw it, take Clarissa away from him and dissolve the marriage.

Writing on Twitter today, Rebecca revealed she has been granted the licence to exhume Clarissa's remains: 'After 9 years I will be able to correct my awful mistake! Can’t wait to be able to take Rissa home! This has really been a long time coming. It’s a day for celebration!'

Writing on Twitter today, Rebecca revealed she has been granted the licence to exhume Clarissa's remains: 'After 9 years I will be able to correct my awful mistake! Can’t wait to be able to take Rissa home! This has really been a long time coming. It’s a day for celebration!'

Writing on Twitter today, Rebecca revealed she has been granted the licence to exhume Clarissa’s remains: ‘After 9 years I will be able to correct my awful mistake! Can’t wait to be able to take Rissa home! This has really been a long time coming. It’s a day for celebration!’

‘The note didn’t describe anything as far as you know Clarissa’s future or Clarissa’s wellbeing, it was just you have brought this on yourself because of the actions you’ve done, I’ve tried to do everything I could.

‘His last line on that letter was that you will never forget this day and that has definitely been the case and once I read that note that’s when I fell into shock… I told the guards that the coast guard needed to be called out.’

Rebecca, who has since remarried and had more children, said she deeply regrets allowing her daughter to be buried with her ‘monster’ father and wants her exhumed so that she can be laid to rest in Texas.

She told the programme: ‘Ever since Clarissa’s casket was closed and she was lowered down into that grave, I just felt like I had made a very grievous mistake. 

Rebecca, who has since remarried and had two more children, said she deeply regrets allowing her daughter (pictured together) to be buried with her 'monster' father and wants her exhumed so that she can be laid to rest in Texas

Rebecca, who has since remarried and had two more children, said she deeply regrets allowing her daughter (pictured together) to be buried with her 'monster' father and wants her exhumed so that she can be laid to rest in Texas

Rebecca, who has since remarried and had two more children, said she deeply regrets allowing her daughter (pictured together) to be buried with her ‘monster’ father and wants her exhumed so that she can be laid to rest in Texas

During an interview in 2021, Rebecca said she doesn't feel she'll ever be able to forgive McCarthy for his despicable actions. Pictured, Rebecca with her daughter

During an interview in 2021, Rebecca said she doesn't feel she'll ever be able to forgive McCarthy for his despicable actions. Pictured, Rebecca with her daughter

During an interview in 2021, Rebecca said she doesn’t feel she’ll ever be able to forgive McCarthy for his despicable actions. Pictured, Rebecca with her daughter

‘And while I understand the reasons why I decided what I had decided eight years ago, certain circumstances were brought to light that made me realise just how involved Martin’s plan was and I feel like burying them together was a huge mistake.

‘I feel like I essentially abandoned her because I am not there any more and the grave and where she’s buried and how she’s buried and who she’s buried with, just gives me a great deal of stress that I would just sleep better, I would be able to function better if I was able to take her home with me.

‘I know that, I know that exhuming her is not going to bring her back to me but it will be some small amount of closure. And I hate to use that word but that is what it will be when I can exhume Clarissa, when I can take her home with me. 

‘There will be some small amount of closure that I no longer have to think that she’s in the arms of that monster.’

On her GoFundMe page, which surpassed its $50,000 goal, she stated she was ‘resolute’ in rectifying her ‘awful mistake’, despite the obvious hurdles she faced.

After months of agony, Rebecca has finally received her wish.  

Rebecca told RTÉ One’s Claire Byrne Live programme she is campaigning to have her daughter's body exhumed after agreeing to bury her and her father together in a 'fog of grief and shock. Today Rebecca announced she has been successful in her campaign

Rebecca told RTÉ One’s Claire Byrne Live programme she is campaigning to have her daughter's body exhumed after agreeing to bury her and her father together in a 'fog of grief and shock. Today Rebecca announced she has been successful in her campaign

Rebecca told RTÉ One’s Claire Byrne Live programme she is campaigning to have her daughter’s body exhumed after agreeing to bury her and her father together in a ‘fog of grief and shock. Today Rebecca announced she has been successful in her campaign

Rebecca met McCarthy when she was a teenager studying in Ireland, and married in summer 2006.

During an interview with the Opinion Line on Cork’s 96FM in 2021, the mother said she doesn’t feel she’ll ever be able to forgive him for his despicable actions.

‘I feel like he used his daughter as a sword to stab me in the heart with. And I think that is very very wrong,’ she said.

‘I think that the expectation that I had that I bury Clarissa so quickly was… it just wasn’t fair. Clarissa and her father died on a Tuesday and they were buried on a Friday.’

Rebecca added: ‘In that small space of time I had to decide what happened to this little girl who was my world.

‘The first thought that struck me in the shock that I was in was that I didn’t want her to be alone.

‘At the time I didn’t know just how planned out Martin had gone. The totality of the steps he took to ensure that if it wasn’t that day he had the steps in place to carry out his end game another day.’

She later discovered McCarthy had approached a family court to ensure Clarissa wouldn’t be allowed to leave the country if Rebecca went back to the US.

‘He got a restriction put on her passport. If if I wanted to leave the country with Clarissa I couldn’t have done that,’ she explained.

‘The way his will is written it makes it very clear to me he had planned what he was going to do as a punishment to me. He at least spent a month planning it.

‘He started changing his will early February. I do think it was just a matter of time. He was given an opportunity that night and took it.’

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Source: Daily Mail

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