Lawmaker interrupts veteran suicide talk to condemn 'offensive' phrase
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A Boston City Councilor sidetracked a conversation focused on suicide prevention in the city, particularly concerning veterans, to highlight the importance of language sensitivity.

Sharon Durkan, a member of the Democratic Party, followed Councilor Ed Flynn’s introduction of a resolution aimed at reducing the risk of individuals leaping from high-rise parking structures, by urging caution in language.

Durkan took issue with Flynn saying a man who jumped to his death from a Chinatown parking garage last week ‘committed suicide’.

“I know many who feel very strongly about this topic, and it’s crucial that we avoid using language that stigmatizes those who’ve taken their own lives,” she stated.

‘I would prefer instead of “committed suicide” that we say something like…’ she continued before trailing off without offering an alternative.

‘I, having found a family member who attempted, I feel very strongly that we not use stigmatizing language,’ she concluded.

Flynn, also a Democrat, acknowledged Durkan’s critique by referencing his 24-year service in the US Navy and expressing his commitment to supporting disabled veterans.

“I prefer this not be blown out of proportion beyond a colleague’s mild critique,” he remarked. “I’m disappointed to hear those comments.”

Boston City Councilor Sharon Durkan chastised her fellow council member Ed Flynn for using the words 'committed suicide' and said the phrase was triggering for her

Boston City Councilor Sharon Durkan admonished her colleague Ed Flynn for employing the term ‘committed suicide,’ noting that the phrase was a trigger for her.

Flynn was trying to discuss how to cut down on the number of suicides at high rise parking garages in Boston. He said that Durkan's comments about politically correct language distracted from the issue at hand

Flynn was trying to discuss how to cut down on the number of suicides at high rise parking garages in Boston. He said that Durkan’s comments about politically correct language distracted from the issue at hand

After Council President Ruthzee Louijeune said the correct term was ‘died by suicide,’ Durkan was recognized to speak again and said Flynn’s comments were ‘triggering’.

‘This really for me, it just was triggering for me so that’s why I wanted to say something because I think we owe it to our constituents that have suicidal ideations to know that if they lose their life it is not their fault. It is never your fault,’ she said.

The hearing went further off topic when Councilor Julia Meija agreed with Durkan that the phrase ‘committed suicide’ was triggering for her.

Meija also spent time talking about her own suicide attempt and how her mother allegedly did not properly care for her.

‘I always like to see things as teachable moments. It’s all how we choose to experience feedback that we get, I think we’re all a work in progress,’ Meija said.

It was after this that Flynn directly accused Durkan of derailing the conversation, which was supposed to be cutting down on the number of suicides at parking garages.

Before the entire session was hijacked to speak about language, Flynn proposed adding higher railings, training garage employees and adding signs with suicide-prevention hotlines.

‘Councilor Durkan felt it necessary to continue the conversation a second time,’ Flynn said. ‘For a colleague to distract from the purpose of this hearing is disappointing. I don’t want to use a stronger word, but I’ll just say, disappointing.’

Durkan was heavily criticized online for her conduct during the meeting, which one person called 'performance empathy'

Durkan was heavily criticized online for her conduct during the meeting, which one person called ‘performance empathy’

Dozens of people responded to the clip of her condemning Flynn's use of the phrase 'committed suicide'

Dozens of people responded to the clip of her condemning Flynn’s use of the phrase ‘committed suicide’

‘My concern is, going forward, what are we going to do about high rise parking garages that are easily accessible for people without any rails or infrastructure. That’s my message. That message has now been lost because of this distraction,’ he added.

Durkan was heavily criticized online for her conduct during the meeting, which one person called ‘performance empathy’. 

‘What did @rondurk even hope to accomplish with this statement?’ they wrote. ‘She only wanted the spotlight to perform. How selfish and pathetic.’

‘Her in a nutshell. Focused on all the wrong things,’ another person wrote.

Someone else disagreed with her premise entirely, writing: ‘I think calling it exactly what it is, is the right thing to do. Words matter and being honest matters. Everyone knows what it is no matter how you change the words so stop trying to make it pretty.’

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