Noem's answer on 'sexual relations' with Lewandowski was 'final straw' for Trump, sources say

WASHINGTON — President Trump decided to remove Homeland Security Secretary Kristi Noem from her position following a surprising moment at a House hearing on Wednesday. According to insiders and those familiar with the White House’s inner workings, her noncommittal response to a question about her alleged “sexual relations” with senior aide Corey Lewandowski was the decisive factor.

Prior to this, Trump had been growing increasingly displeased with Noem. His irritation peaked after she told senators on Tuesday that he had sanctioned $220 million in advertisements featuring her. However, her ambiguous answer during the hearing confirmed his decision to dismiss her.

“The inquiry about the affair during the hearing was the tipping point. It was intensely difficult to watch,” one insider remarked about Noem’s response, which many perceived as an acknowledgment of her affair with Lewandowski. This came just after her husband of 34 years, Bryon Noem, accompanied her to the hearing.

“The pressure had been building,” another source noted, echoing the sentiment that this incident was the last straw.

A third individual commented, “After those two hearings, the focus shifted entirely onto her and Lewandowski. There was no turning back.”

As for Lewandowski, he admitted to The Post that he was uncertain about the impact the rumored affair had on events.

“You’re asking me to speculate on things that I have no insight into,” he said when reached by phone.

Trump’s ouster of Noem — the first cabinet shakeup of his second term — came shortly after he told Reuters that she lied to Congress about his approval of advertising spending, giving the impression that that was the core reason for his decision to swap her out for Sen. Markwayne Mullin (R-Okla.).

Some of the ad money flowed to a company run by the husband of Noem’s then-spokeswoman.


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Sources said that the ad issue was indeed a key motivation for Trump, though her poor handling of the affair query sealed her fate.

Sen. John Kennedy (R-La.) told reporters after Noem’s termination that Trump was “mad as a murder hornet” and considering replacing her with Mullin on Tuesday night after her Senate testimony — though he didn’t do so until Thursday following her disastrous House testimony on Wednesday.

“The president, when he called me Tuesday night, the night of the hearing, when he was mad as a murder hornet, he asked me what I thought about Markwayne,” Kennedy said.

Trump was already aware of Noem’s relationship with Lewandowski, who served as his first campaign manager in 2016, and has joked about it for years — but viewed her handling of the affair question as a disaster for her already crumbling credibility.

Noem and Lewandowski began to lose influence in January when a second anti-deportation activist, Alex Pretti, was killed by federal agents in Minneapolis, following the earlier shooting of Renee Good. Trump sent in the pair’s internal rival, border czar Tom Homan, to calm and wind down the local operation.

An administration official said: “Replacing Kristi was based on the culmination of her many unfortunate leadership failures including the fallout in Minnesota, the ad campaign, the allegations of infidelity, the mismanagement of her staff, and her constant feuding with the heads of other agencies, including CBP and ICE.


Ex-Secretary Kristi Noem’s most memorable photo ops during her tenure at DHS:

Kristi Noem trains with the Maritime Security Response Team West during a visit to Coast Guard Cutter Elm, in San Diego, CA, March 16, 2025.
Kristi Noem trains with the Maritime Security Response Team West during a visit to Coast Guard Cutter Elm, in San Diego, CA, March 16, 2025. U.S. Coast Guard District 11

Noem conducts a firefighting simulation at Coast Guard Base Kodiak, in Kodiak, Alaska, March 17, 2025.
Noem conducts a firefighting simulation at Coast Guard Base Kodiak, in Kodiak, Alaska, March 17, 2025.DHS photo by Mikaela McGee


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Noem boards the US Coast Guard Cutter Escanaba for a meeting on drug interdiction on June 24, 2025 in Panama City.
Noem boards the US Coast Guard Cutter Escanaba for a meeting on drug interdiction on June 24, 2025 in Panama City.POOL/AFP via Getty Images

Kristi Noem rides on the USCG MSRT Small Boat in South Bay, San Diego, California, March 16, 2025.DHS photo by Tia Dufour

Kristi Noem speaks during a tour of the Terrorist Confinement Center (CECOT) as prisoners stand, looking out from a cell, in Tecoluca, El Salvador, on March 26, 2025.POOL/AFP via Getty Images


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DHS Secretary Kristi Noem seen riding a horse in front of Mount Rushmore for a DHS ad on Oct. 2, 2025.
DHS Secretary Kristi Noem seen riding a horse in front of Mount Rushmore for a DHS ad on Oct. 2, 2025.DHS photo by Tia Dufour

Noem riding an ATV near the border wall in Nogales, Arizona on March 15, 2026.
Noem riding an ATV near the border wall in Nogales, Arizona on March 15, 2026.POOL/AFP via Getty Images

United States' Homeland Security Secretary Kristi Noem tosses a coin into the 18th century Trevi Fountain on May 23, 2025 in Rome, Italy.
Noem throwing a coin in Rome’s Trevi Fountain on May 23, 2025.Getty Images


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Noem riding a camel during a trip to Qal'at al-Bahrain Fort in Bahrain on May 25, 2025.
Noem riding a camel during a trip to Qal’at al-Bahrain Fort in Bahrain on May 25, 2025.Getty Images

Noem piloting a boat in Manama, Bahrain on May 25, 2025.
Noem piloting a boat in Manama, Bahrain on May 25, 2025.Getty Images

Noem dancing during a trip to Buenos Aires, Argentina on July 29, 2025.
Noem dancing during a trip to Buenos Aires, Argentina on July 29, 2025.Photo by Alex Brandon-Pool/Getty Images


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Noem riding a horse on a beach with Ecuador President Daniel Noboa in Manta, Ecuador on Nov. 5, 2025.
Noem riding a horse on a beach with Ecuador President Daniel Noboa in Manta, Ecuador on Nov. 5, 2025.Photo by Alex Brandon-Pool/Getty Images


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“Kristi’s drama sadly overshadowed and distracted from the Administration’s extremely popular immigration agenda, which will continue full force.”

Lewandowksi, who led a reign of terror at DHS while serving as Noem’s de facto chief of staff, despite being an unpaid special government employee, is now likely out of a job at DHS.

One source said they “don’t know who would want him.”

But a different source said they suspect that Lewandowski, whom Trump has periodically dropped then welcomed back into the fold before, eventually will find his way back into a position of power.

For his part, Lewandowski downplayed his influence at the department, saying he was merely an “unpaid volunteer” for Trump’s White House. 

“I haven’t made that decision,” Lewandowski said, when asked if he’ll stay on with the Trump administration. 

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