The aftermath of the international break left more than just Craig Bellamy’s emotional state in disarray; his hand suffered as well.

On Tuesday night, Bellamy shared his ordeal following Wales’ draw in a friendly match against Northern Ireland. His hand bore the brunt of his frustration during halftime when his team was trailing 1-0 in a match that seemed unnecessary to many.

Yet for Bellamy, the fixture held significance. While others saw it as a poor replacement for a World Cup play-off against Italy, it was still a match to be won. The team wasn’t just losing; they were performing poorly, as Bellamy bluntly put it.

Understanding the context is crucial. Despite being a seemingly inconsequential friendly, it carried weight for Bellamy. This match accounted for a small but valuable portion of his yearly interaction with the team, and he values every moment. Accepting subpar performance against Northern Ireland was not in his playbook.

Thus, he woke up on Wednesday nursing a sore hand, compounded by lingering disappointment over the defeat to Bosnia the previous Thursday. That loss was highlighted when Bosnia triumphed over Italy on penalties to secure a World Cup spot, a bitter pill for Bellamy as he recounted why the table bore the evidence of his exasperation.

Wales have won eight and drawn five of their 18 games under Craig Bellamy

His side suffered penalty shootout heartbreak after losing to Bosnia and Herzegovina in their World Cup play-off clash

“For heaven’s sake,” he muttered as the reality sank in, “that stings even more.”

There is a conversation to be had about the value of passion in a manager. It’s one that usually carves a lazy trail to Kevin Keegan and the conclusion that passion alone isn’t enough.

Except that line of thought does Bellamy a grave injustice, which is a point worth noting when a few misguided souls might be questioning if he is the right man to lead Wales in their efforts to reach Euro 2028, a tournament they will partially host.

You don’t steer a squad drawn predominantly from the Championship to group A of the Nations League on passion alone. Same goes for winning eight and drawing five of his 18 games and putting five goals on Belgium across two qualifiers.

That they lost both those ties 4-3 and 4-2 is a signpost of their strength and weakness – they attack with speed, they dominate possession, they are exciting to watch but they are open at the back. That is a shortcoming that talks to Bellamy’s tactical decisions, but it also speaks about resources – three of those eight Belgian goals came after the 75th minute.

As we saw against Bosnia in the moments before Edin Dzeko’s late equaliser, a manager is often only as strong as his bench. Does Bellamy always make the best choices with his substitutions? Hard no. Is he spoilt for choice with his options? Same answer.

At the top of Bellamy’s tree, Harry Wilson has proven himself an excellent player with Fulham this season but he isn’t Gareth Bale. Just as Ethan Ampadu is impressive but isn’t Aaron Ramsey.

Smaller populations like Wales are more vulnerable to the rises and falls of the tides, of course, and currently Bellamy’s job is to exceed the sum of modest parts. He did that by taking Wales to the brink of a World Cup, which remains an achievement despite FIFA’s vandalism of the process. It’s one reason why Celtic have been sniffing around him for months.

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For Wales’s sake, Bellamy simply must stay. To that goal, he says there is nowhere he would rather be than leading his country and that takes us back to the value of passion.

To the nature of a man who tells his players they must not swap shirts because there is no guarantee they will get another. A man who follows that instruction with something similar – don’t you dare drop that shirt crest-down on the floor.

In club football I can imagine Bellamy would be too exhausting for some players, even if he has made it his aim in this gig to shed old reputations.

Maybe he has mellowed, or perhaps that bruised fist shows he is a work in progress, but for now the international game would seem to offer him better rhythms. We shouldn’t forget this is a coach who once joked to me that he previously shared a psychologist with Ronnie O’Sullivan and ended up being the more demanding client.

But he is also what Wales needs. I wrote in a column a couple of years ago about how his early months in this job had been dominated by eight-hour road-trips to the most rural provinces of Wales on heart-and-mind missions that regularly extended until 2am. Places like Machynlleth, Llanrwst and Bryngwran.

My favourite tale traced west to Llechryd, a village of fewer than 900 people, where a child in a school hall asked if he had any regrets from his life. Bellamy threw in a theatrical pause before responding: ‘You do know who I am, right?’

To those with a vested interest in Welsh football, Craig Bellamy is still the answer.