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A Missouri assistant fire chief who allegedly insisted for more than a year that his wife died by suicide during a highway drive is now facing murder charges after investigators say a hidden cellphone video undermined his account.
Jeremy Perrien, 45, was taken into custody Friday, Aug. 21, at Fire Station Four in Scott County, Missouri, following a 14-month investigation. Authorities charged him with second-degree murder, felony harassment, domestic assault and two counts of tampering with physical evidence in a felony prosecution.
An affidavit reviewed by News Outlet says Perrien, an assistant fire chief, initially told investigators that he and his wife, 31-year-old Shelby Perrien, were returning from a bar in Cape Girardeau on June 25, 2025, when she said, “I’m sorry, I’m a piece of s—,” produced a .380 caliber handgun and shot herself in the head.
Missouri State Highway Patrol troopers arrested 45-year-old Jeremy R. Perrien shortly after 7 a.m. Friday, Aug. 21, according to Scott County Sheriff Derick Wheetley. (Scott County Sheriff’s Office)
Deputies asked Perrien whether he stopped at any point after the shooting. He first said he had not, then allegedly changed his answer, saying, “I lied, I pulled over on Kingshighway to p—.” He also described the drive to authorities as “non-argumentative.”
Investigators now allege that version of events was false and that Perrien was concealing what they described as a violent reality inside the marriage.
The case shifted after detectives accessed Shelby’s cellphone and found a “hidden folder” containing a 90-second video recorded about a month before she died, according to the affidavit. In the footage, investigators say Jeremy is seen hitting his wife, grabbing her by the throat, choking her and punching her repeatedly. The affidavit also says Perrien threatened to kill her multiple times during the recording.
“I would not get mouthy with me. I will, I’ll f——. I want to kill you so f—— bad right now,” Jeremy allegedly told his wife.
“If you’re going to lie, then I’m just going to smash your face and go to jail and end my f—— life with you,” he allegedly said.
Shelby Perrien, 31, from Blodgett, Missouri, was allegedly murdered in June 2025. Her husband, Jeremy Perrien, was subsequently arrested in August 2026. (Caudle Funeral Home)
At another point in the graphic exchange, Jeremy allegedly threw his wedding band in her face and said, “I’m never wearing that son a b—- again.”
State police also recovered disturbing text messages where Jeremy allegedly sent: “You 100% will need a body bag if I stay with you. Each time my rage is worse.”
In another message, according to the affidavit, he wrote, “I’d be lying to you if I told you that I was hoping that you wouldn’t commit suicide.”
Perrien’s undoing came from the crime lab after forensic analysis of the blood spatter and physical evidence inside the vehicle determined it was impossible for Shelby to have pulled the trigger, according to authorities.
Perrien was arrested Friday, and is currently being held at the Stoddard County Jail without bond.
According to the Scott County Sheriff’s Department, Jeremy Perrien was the assistant fire chief for Scott County Rural Fire Department. (Facebook/Scott County Rural Fire Department)
Scott County Sheriff Derick Wheetley said he personally knew both Jeremy and Shelby Perrien and had worked alongside Jeremy at numerous fire scenes and calls for service.
“This has never been something I took lightly, and I wanted the truth just as much as Shelby’s family, friends, and this community did,” Wheetley said in a release. “Today’s charges demonstrate exactly why we turned this investigation over from the beginning and why we remained patient and allowed independent agencies to follow the evidence wherever it led.”
News Outlet has requested comment from the Scott County Rural Fire Department. It was not immediately clear if Perrien had an attorney representing him.
