Porsha Williams has discovered the key to successful dating at 44, just a month after sharing that she’s dating a woman.

The Real Housewives of Atlanta star, who finalized her divorce from Simon Guobadia in June, spoke candidly about relationships during a panel at BravoCon 2025 in Las Vegas on Saturday.

During the discussion, she was asked to give advice to a fan in her 30s who felt ‘anxious’ about the dating scene.

Williams revealed it took her until the age of 44 to truly ‘figure it out.’

‘I’m a hopeless romantic,’ she shared. ‘When I meet someone and there’s mutual interest, I think, you do this, I’ll do that, and we’ll be together, right?’

The reality TV star advised to ‘remove the anxiety from the process,’ suggesting to try something new to find a partner who genuinely matches your place in life.

Porsha Williams said that she has finally figured out dating at the age of 44 – one month after revealing she is romancing a woman; seen at BravoCon 2025 on Saturday 

Williams added, ‘Yes, you’re in your early 30s… you gotta wait til 44 to figure it out like me. Take it out.’

She concluded her advice with, ‘Date knowing who you are and knowing what you want, and if you see a red flag, run b***h!’

The media personality is known for starring on RHOA from 2012 until her exit from the Bravo reality series in 2021. However, she returned to the show last year. 

When another fan of the series asked if RHOA gets the recognition it deserves as a ‘Black cast,’ Williams agreed that they do. 

She also referenced to the love and support that she received during her three years away from the show. 

‘We know we bad b****es,’ the reality star told the live audience before adding that the ‘numbers don’t lie.’ 

Also during her time at BravoCon over the weekend, Williams gave further insight into her love life and said that while she is not in a relationship, she is dating. 

‘I’m dating, but I have started to focus on someone,’ she expressed at the Getting Lucky At The Love Hotel panel, per Bravo. ‘I hope that this could be something, but we’ll see. You know, still just dating.’ 

The reality star then expressed that she would ‘take the anxiousness out of it, you’re going to have to do something different to find someone whose going to truly match where you are’

Williams added, ‘Yes, you’re in your early 30s… you gotta wait til 44 to figure it out like me. Take it out’; seen above on Saturday 

Last month in October while making an appearance at CultureCon in NYC, Williams revealed that she has been seeing a woman. 

‘Of the people I am talking to now… he is nice – and she is nice,’ the TV personality stated at the time. 

‘But I really just wanted to make sure these were normal people,’ she continued to the crowd in attendance. 

‘And what I talked about with my therapist the other day was, I’m having a hard time opening up because they’re not narcissists. And guess what narcissists do? They love bomb you. They do everything. They’re perfect. They mirror you.’ 

She further explained that both have been challenging her and ‘aren’t just doing whatever they need to do to get into the relationship. 

‘And so I’m not feeling safe to open up yet…I realized if you want something different, you have to be different. I have to soften up a bit.’

Williams continued, ‘I have to not expect a whole lot of elaborate things…I have to expect someone to call me out from time to time.’ 

The star tied the knot with Simon Guobadia back in November 2022. However, she filed for divorce in February 2024.

‘We know we bad b****es,’ the reality star told the live audience before adding that the ‘numbers don’t lie’; RHOA cast seen above 

‘Of the people I am talking to now… he is nice – and she is nice,’ the TV personality stated at the time; seen on Saturday in Las Vegas 

Back in June it was revealed that Guobadia was deported back to Nigeria after being detained by ICE for four months. 

She issued a statement on Instagram at the time which read: ‘It’s disheartening to see my estranged husband make choices that have led to this outcome. 

‘At this moment, my priority is moving forward with my family,’ Williams concluded followed by a praying hands emoji. 

After her divorce, the Real Housewives star also discussed her love life during an interview with Entertainment Tonight at BravoCon 2025. 

‘I’ve been enjoying myself. Dating has just been beautiful for me. I’m just loving on me the most right now,’ she said. 

The star tied the knot with Simon Guobadia back in November 2022. However, she filed for divorce in February 2024; former couple seen in 2022 in Atlanta 

She issued a statement on Instagram at the time which read: ‘It’s disheartening to see my estranged husband make choices that have led to this outcome’

‘I’ve been enjoying myself. Dating has just been beautiful for me. I’m just loving on me the most right now,’ she said; seen on Saturday in Las Vegas 

Williams also agreed that she feels ‘free’ following her split. 

‘And right now I am doing everything my way. I’m enjoying myself. If it feels good to me, if it feels right for my spirit – like I told someone else. My nervous system is just calm.’ 

She also expressed to the outlet that she does ‘have someone special right now’ in her life – but did not disclose who. 

The reality star was also previously married to former NFL player Kordell Stewart from 2011 through 2013.