As part of a special series leading up to July 4, The Post has partnered with the Milken Center for Advancing the American Dream to highlight personal reflections on the American dream in 2026. Among the voices featured is California novelist Kevin Kwan, renowned for his bestselling book “Crazy Rich Asians.”
Back in 1985, my father made a life-changing decision to relocate our family to the United States. Despite enjoying a comfortable life in Singapore, he yearned for something more. In Singapore, where I was born, social hierarchy was deeply ingrained. My father belonged to an upper echelon, bound by rigid traditions and beliefs he sought to escape. He envisioned America as a blank slate—a place where he could redefine himself and grant his children the freedom to do the same. It was an invaluable gift.
We settled in Houston, Texas. My father wanted us to cultivate independence and the ability to think for ourselves. He often remarked, “America will offer you opportunities you can’t even imagine you lack.”
I am profoundly thankful. I don’t believe there’s anywhere else in the world today that offers the same level of social mobility as the United States. Although challenges persist, America embraces the idea that you can pursue any path without fear of judgment.
In Singapore, I doubt I would have considered a creative career viable. Social roles were more rigidly defined. People from certain backgrounds were expected to become doctors, lawyers, or work within the family business. Pursuing a career as a photographer, ballet dancer, or actor was not deemed acceptable.
For those born in America, it’s easy to take liberty for granted. Freedom is a given. However, coming from a more restrictive environment, these are the dreams we cherish: the dream of free speech, the dream of creating and expressing oneself without the fear of censorship.
The American Dream Video Project showcases real stories that illuminate pathways to opportunity. Featured at the Milken Center for Advancing the American Dream (MCAAD), this series is part of the Center’s celebration of America’s 250th anniversary. MCAAD is Washington, DC’s newest cultural institution, offering interactive exhibits and stories about achieving the American Dream. For more information, visit mcaad.org.
